Thursday, November 29, 2007

I'm a journalist!!


Hahah no not really. This blog will probably be the closest thing I'll get to becoming one. But one of my rommmates is an editor for a school newspaper and she was short and article, so she asked me to write about my view as Egypt as a foreigner. I hope I did a good job. It still needs to be edited by her and other people working on the newspaper but this is what I have so far...


Its 3 am, the weather has finally cooled off. Little kids are running around with their families. Taxis are trying to get new customers with catchy Disney tunes and blight blue flashing lights. Young couples are strolling along the Nile River while groups of friends are racing in horse drawn carriages on the highways alongside fancy sedans. Welcome to Cairo. To her people she’s known as “Al om al dunia”, or “mother of the world.” To a foreigner she is an amazing city full of crazy stories, frustrations, and most importantly excellent opportunities. As a study abroad student I was able to learn Arabic from Arabs, live in an area that housed one of the world’s greatest civilizations, and gain a different insight on life by living in a different culture. However, living in Cairo is by no means easy, because life here is extremely chaotic. Cars have no form of traffic system, the drivers drive how and where they please only honking their horns to prevent accidents. There are no crosswalks or stoplights forcing pedestrians to weave in and out of the jumbled stream of traffic. The metro cars are always jammed packed, goods aren’t consistently offered in grocery stores, and once a month the electricity goes out. It is also imperative for women not to make eye contact with men, unless they want to be followed and haggled. It is true that Egypt is a hospitable country, but the majority of the foreigners live separately. They live their own lives, and are catered to with familiar necessities. This is a relief, because it prevents home from feeling so far away. At the same time it is very frustrating. The majority of my friends are American. I didn’t travel halfway across the world to be friends with more Americans. I have some Egyptian friends, but only because I joined a language exchange program. I have three Egyptian friends that are girls, which is surprising because I am a girl. One would think that making friends of the same sex would be easier. Also, many Egyptian males act that it is ok to take advantage of foreign girls. My friends and I have encountered too many situations of being followed, being teased and having rocks thrown at us. Although these problems are very wearisome, I absolutely love Egypt and can’t decide whether or not to extend my stay. People are always with positive spirits, and have a special complementing phrase for every occasion. Egyptians are serious about preserving their culture, maintaining family ties and football. I have attended several football games and am always amazed to see how passionate, dedicated and emotional grown men can be about a sport. I wish all Americans had the same attitude. There is also always something to do in Egypt such as touring ancient and religious sites, haggling over prices in Khan el-Khaleli market, sailing down the Nile River, gazing at the city lights from the “moqattam” or just chilling with friends in one of the many coffee shops. Egypt has the best of the best and the worst of the worst. The experiences I have had here have taught me important lessons that will help me fully and successfully live life.

Facts about Egypt.

I found a website that gave a good brief explanation of Cairo and its history. Of course this doesn't explain everything about Egypt, but I hope to fill in the holes with my experiences and pictures. Its worth the read, and who knows you may learn something new!

http://www.factsmonk.com/facts_about_egypt

Shooting Club

Cairo--shooting club


On Tuesday I went to the Shooting Club in an area called Dokki with my friends Mohamed, Mohamed's cousin, Ali, Liz, Caprill, and Stephanie. And no its not a place where you shoot...which confused me at first:) Instead it is the Costco of all country clubs and I'm sorry that I have to admit this to the Boulderites but the Boulder Country club is a weanie compared to the Shooting Club. The club is a place where very rich Egyptians go to hang out, watch their kids be involved in a variety of sports (swimming, basketball, tennis, SOCCER, pickleball, and many others), people can walk off their stresses, students can do their homework, people can eat dinner, watch tv or a movie, and there are huge playgrounds for children. This place is hughmongous and I'm sure I didn't see half of the activities available. There are even trash cans all over the place so people don't have an excuse to throw their garbage on the ground (what a concept!!). I really like this place and recommend it to anyone who decides to live in Egypt with their family, but I heard that it is really hard to obtain a membership and it is very expensive. Oh well, its worth the money in my opinion:) So I saw another side of Cairo that tourists have never seen...and I think I found the secret hiding place of soccer moms. haha I'm glad to know they're welcome everywhere (I always joke around with my friends that I'm going to grow up to be a soccer mom and drive a car that is of an obnoxious size:)) but I think in Egypt they have private drivers instead of huge gas-guzzling cars. I think I can handle that lol.

Random Thoughts... new apartment?

I'm currently lying in bed because I'm sick and have been sick for a couple days. I'm not exactly sure what bug I cought, but I think it has to do with eating bad food. My roommates and I have come to realize that our refrigerator isn't always turned on and sometimes the plug comes out of the socket in the wall. Not to mention that there is still ice in the refrigerator and I still have to throw out some of my groceries everyweek. I told my landlord about the ice, but he didn't believe me and again thought I was stupid. I wanted to show him, but thanks to murphey's law the maid had just cleaned the fridge and removed all the ice. Oh well, he probably wouldn't have fixed it anyway since he still hasn't repaired my airconditioner (not that I use it anymore...I feel so stupid that I'm cold in Egypt! Its 75 degrees and drops to about 55 at night. Which is kinda cold, but not if you compare it to Colorado. But It does get 110 degrees during the summer so in consideration that is a big drop and I have the right to be cold:)) Also, the bed boards under my mattress aren't stable because they aren't quite long enough, so sometimes my bed caves in. Not that this is life threatening but I shouldn't have to deal with it, and my roommates shouldn't have to deal with their bathroom door not opening causing them to be stuck inside the bathroom. haha I'm glad they're not claustrophobic!! So to solve the problem I think I might change apartments. Two of my roommates were going to look for a new apartment anyway becuase the two sisters (Hania and Janan) currently share a room and a bed and Hania has to live out of her suitcase. Which is understandably not fun. But I like my roommmates a lot and it would be nice if we could all continue to live together. So this will be my new project. I need to find an apartment with 4 bedrooms (which might be the toughest part),preferrably closer to the AUC campus (we sometimes spend 2 hours a day commuting, and when you're busy that takes up a good chunk of your day), near a grocery store (haha assuming that we have a working refrigerator...we can buy a lot of groceries, becuase we all like to cook) near a gym (Hania and I like to go to the gym) and kinda close to the metro (haha we've all gotten used to coping with the inconveniences of the metro, that it would be hard to completely separate from it....lame I know:)) I think it would be fun and maybe we can actually decorate the apartment and make it homey. The walls here are like cement sidewalks making it difficult to use pushpins or nails and all my posters fall when I use tape or the sticky two-sided goo(sorry I don't know the name) that people use for pictures. So that is my random thought and now I need to confirm it with my roommates. I've talked to them all individually but we've never sat down and actually discused it....which would be a good idea:)

Friday, November 23, 2007

Thanksgiving


Yesterday was Thanksgiving, and luckily I attend an American school so I was given the day off. There were 19 people at my house in Colorado, snow outside and a huge fireplace inside. My family and friends gathered around the table and gorged themselves on home-cooking. There was turkey, mashed potatoes, stuffing, dinner rolls, fresh fruit and vegetables, sweet potatoes casserole, cranberry sauce, fresh gravy, and an assortment of pies and other desserts. Then football games were watched, movies were shown on huge tvs, games were played, and most importantly jokes and embarrassing stories were shared. I'm sure it was a lot of fun, but I don't know because I was halfway across the world in my apartment in Egypt. I have no problems living away from home, in fact I prefer it (no offense or anything:)) but missing family holidays was a lot harder than I thought. I did celebrate Thanksgiving, by going to an American restaurant with some of my friends and ordering the Thanksgiving special. But restaurant food isn't the same as home cooked meals. However, it was still fun. We did share jokes and funny stories and horrifying experiences. We even tried to find American football games on tv, but unfortunately the pubs wanted to cater to the Europeans by continuing the tradition of Karaoke night. So my friends and I continued another tradition and began the Christmas festivities. We watched Elf and began playing Christmas songs, since it is now technically ok to start thinking about Christmas. All in all, it wasn't a horrible experience, but it wasn't my favorite. My friends and I tried to keep positive by thinking at least we'll be home for Christmas....but then I realized I'm going to miss Christmas too.... oh dear:( This is when I hate my stubbornness and my instincts that want me to prove that I can live completely on my own with no problems. I can live on my own, and have proved that by surviving Seattle and Egypt...but I should have known better than to miss out on family holidays. Oh well, I guess that's part of the experience of living abroad:)

Friday, November 16, 2007

uh-oh

I ran into some trouble again. I don't know if it was my fault, but there was nothing I could do about it. I was on my way downtown to meet my friends for a late dinner. I was dressed nicely and waited outside for a taxi, which for some reason took a lot longer than I expected. Anyway, while I was waiting at the intersection in front of my apartment, a jeep did a u-turn. It was no big deal until the car stopped in front of me and they guys started haggling me and asking me if I wanted a ride and if I wanted to hang out with them. Of course this annoyed me, but I just walked further up the street to wait for the taxi. Finally one came and the taxi driver was very nice and I was able to speak to him in Arabic. He took me to the metro station, and as I was getting out of the taxi...guess what I noticed? The jeep!! ugh and it was in an area where I had to walk in front of it and deal with more haggling. I just thought to myself, I'll get into the metro station and everything will be ok. After I bought a ticket, something caught my attention and so I turned around and to my dismay saw one of the guys from the jeep buying a ticket! oh crap. So I started walking as fast as I could to the women's section hoping there would be an old lady or guard there to chew him out if he caused me problems. Well he caught up to me and started talking to me. I did a really good job of ignoring him ( you should be proud of me Rose!) but I couldn't take it any longer so I turned around and said "I don't want to talk to you so please leave me alone!" yeah that didn't work. Then I started getting scared....but he finally left 5 minutes later. ugh what am I supposed to do! I am way to stubborn to stay in my apartment all weekend because some guys in Egypt are horrible. And it wasn't that late! like 8 pm!! And I can't depend on people coming all the way to Maadi...I could move to be closer to my friends but I really like Maadi because it isn't crowded like the rest of Cairo and I finally got everything to work in my apartment lol I'll figure something out.

But the problem is that my roomate is also having problems, and she viels herself!
One day a week she has a late class that ends at 10 pm. One night as she was waiting for a taxi home, a car stopped in front of her. The old man inside kept ushering her to get in....and he wasn't a taxi driver. He even stopped traffic! But Egyptian drivers have no patience so soon they were all honking their horns. Then the old man pulled off to the side of the road and continued to pester her....as if she was a prostitute!! Its so distgusting and now some of my friends are missing their classes or on their life because they don't want to deal with the guys.

I'm not saying that Egypt is full of bad people...its really not, but unfortunately I've met a lot of the bad ones. But distusting people live all over the world. I just received and email from my mom that one guy (I used to know him!) was arrested for indecent exposures, and some men are trying again to lure little kids out of parks, and one man became so upset that he completely destroyed a car by smashing it and setting it on fire!

Whatever happened to discipline and whenever did it become ok for people to act this way? I'm so frustrated because I don't know how to solve this problem. To me, this is terrorism because it happens everyday, and disrupts normal routines.

sorry this was depressing...the next one will be a lot better I promise!!:)

Dinner

Last week I was invited to my friend's Reham's house for dinner. They have a really nice apartment and a beautiful view of the Nile River. I tried a lot of new food, some Egyptian and some Saudi Arabian....and all of it was amazing. They even had Babaganoug and celery!! hahah it made my day. I tried two different rice dishes from Saudi Arabia, Mashee (some sort of vegetable stuffed with rice and a little bit of meat) cucumber-mint-yogurt sauce, potatoes, 2 kinds of salads, and a stew type mixture made with eggplants. As you can see it was a lot of food, and there was more with cake and basboosa (a sugary, syrupy, pastry). I ended up hanging out at their house for about 6 hours! I had so much fun and didn't want to leave. Reham's sister, Sherine, doesn't speak that much English and so we made fun of each other, worked together, showed pictures, gossiped, and a bunch of other stuff. Reham's mom reminds me of a mix of my Mom, Grandma, and Aunt Laura. It was weird at first but also great because it was a home away from home. I also learned that Egyptians have so many different ways of complementing the chef and the food and thanking everyone for the entertainment. Unfortunately I didn't know all the phrases and stuck to the American method of saying "thank you." But I at least brought chocolates!!:) I hope I can go again and this time I'll be more prepared.


I love living here...I always get to do something new and different and the Egyptian's hospitality exceeds all expectations:)

African Cup


On Friday Nov. 9, 2007 I went to another soccer game with my friends:) It was the African Cup championship between Ahly (the main team in Egypt) and a team from Tunisia. The place was extremely packed...full of die-hard fans. It was so much fun and this time there were only two Mohammeds with us:) About 14(?) people went and since I was late we couldn't sit all together but it was still a lot of fun. The game was great, but Ahly ended up losing 3-1. It was a big shock and mood buster but my friends were so surprised at how heart-felt the fans are. We are used to the barrel man and the men who were no shirts in the snowy American football games....but once the game is over, its over. People in Egypt focus their life on soccer and were so depressed. Some people were sooo upset, that you made sure you wouldn't talk to them, while others passed out or had heart attacks!! But at least the fans remained loyal and cheered on their team after the game. I love going to soccer games...there's always a different experience and you learn more about the people....such as how much they respect foreigners. There were huge lines to enter the game, and since we were foreigners we were able to jump to the beginning of the line and enter easily. hahah sometimes I love being spoiled:) After the game, I went bowling and learned that I'm really really bad. It was embarrassing but worth it:) I'm sorry I don't have a lot of pictures from the game, but I'm hoping to be able to find some more in the future....



African Cup